Monday 2 December 2013

  OppOsItEs dO AttrAct
Lets cut short the drama and let me clarify that this is not one of those times where u hear this topic and all your imaginations and dreams are crushed by those magnetic poles and positive  protons  and negative electrons..
yes I'm going to talk about that exact thing which you are thinking right now yes yes yes...   
They say opposites attract, and psychologists agree.

According to research, couples who are too similar to each other, both physically and in personality, are less likely to have a long lasting relationship than those with some distance between them.

The theory matches many seemingly perfect Hollywood marriages which failed to last, from Richard Burton and Elizabeth Taylor to Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston. Those annoying couples who seem to agree with each other all the time may find they are actually too close for comfort.
A relationship is not about those love moments and its also not about those fights its all about when both are angry and both of them are dying to make things normal but no there comes ego, so technically they are ready to do everything apart from killing their egos but one of them when finally approaches and texts the other one mostly boys..,

girls on the receivers end as usual..
so now the guy send a text and girls no matter what they are doing they always have one ear on the phone and as soon as they hear it beep they go running and in so much excitement and hurry they end up entering the code wrong at least twice..,
now a typical girl when she sees the text will keep looking at for at-least five minutes and then they will finally prepare a reply..,
they will write as soon as they write the guy on the other hand sees " typing "..,
now girls have the habit they'll write the message than erase it then again write it then again erase regardless of the fact how injurious this habit of theirs could be for the guy they'll do it for consecutively five to six time..,
And then finally they reply and now after sending that text and on the other hand receiving that text both of them have a 32-inch smile on their face and that smile is what defines love.., that smile is all it is about.., 
technically also i mean if both of them are talkative no one to listen that's also a problem and if both are silent that's even bigger problem..
take an example..,
you are walking down the road with your " friend " and its a nice cozy weather and pleasant breezy wind and as most of the people say " Love is in the air"..,and at these moments the boy is trying to hold her hand and especially the last finger is the naughtiest at these times and girls usually are a little reluctant..,and suddenly from nowhere there comes the hero of the film a dog barking..,
it is not even barking at the girl but they'll get so sacred and they'll hold you so tight and they'll shut their eyes so hard as if they are trying to push their eyes back into the brain and you can see those three lines of tension on their forehead..,and mind you at this point of time the girl is in her cutest phase nothing looks more beautiful than that girl..,and we guys at the first minute are having a hard time to believe what just happened..,the same girl who was reluctant in our holding our hand two minutes ago is holding us so tight and is looking wonderfully weird..
and apart from hating that dog and shooing him away we start falling in love with that dog and why wouldn't we its because of that dog the "HERO" of the film that girl is in arms..,now that's what is romance..
 imagine both are not scared and they just walk past the dog and no romance nothing and this was just an example it doesn't mean that if one of you is not scared of dogs you both are not right for each other there are millions of these small things which brings out the romance..,
so no matter how hard you try you'll always end up with an exact opposite of you.
every perfectionist reading this blog will end with a dumbo..as far as i know its true in my case...;)

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