Big HANDS of life

There comes a time in life when even the most rightly said things seems to be wrong, when one looses friends when one looses enemies, in a way the person looses touch to itself...

its not a bad news its also a phase of life that's the truth and  you have to face it that's a fact so its not a bad news its a reality..,

and frankly speaking I tried to find the way to get out of these situations I failed.., I tried to figure out what to do in such circumstances I failed again..,

so I have no clue what to do or what not to do when such a situation comes in front of you..

All I can say is just HANG IN THERE..,

  OppOsItEs dO AttrAct

Lets cut short the drama and let me clarify that this is not one of those times where u hear this topic and all your imaginations and dreams are crushed by those magnetic poles and positive  protons  and negative electrons..

yes I'm going to talk about that exact thing which you are thinking right now yes yes yes...   

They say opposites attract, and psychologists agree.

According to research, couples who are too similar to each other, both physically and in personality, are less likely to have a long lasting relationship than those with some distance between them.

The theory matches many seemingly perfect Hollywood marriages which failed to last, from Richard Burton and Elizabeth Taylor to Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston. Those annoying couples who seem to agree with each other all the time may find they are actually too close for comfort.

A relationship is not about those love moments and its also not about those fights its all about when both are angry and both of them are dying to make things normal but no there comes ego, so technically they are ready to do everything apart from killing their egos but one of them when finally approaches and texts the other one mostly boys..,

The Mirror To Your Life
its not about what you wear..,its about who you are

its not about the parties..,its about the memories

its not about the words..,its about the gestures

its not about the gifts..,its about that smile

its not about the perfections..,its about that dumbness....

There was a story I read somewhere

Human beings and frogs are two creatures in nature who have tremendous power to adjust. Put a frog in a vessel of water and start heating that water. As the temperature of water rises, the frog is able to adjust its body temperature accordingly. The frog keeps on adjusting with increase in temperature accordingly. Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog is not able to adjust anymore. At that point the frog decides to jump out. The frog decides to jump out but is unable to do so, because it lost all its strength in adjusting with the temperature. Very soon the frog dies.

What killed the frog....

Check Your luGGaGe..,

happiness ...

what is happiness..,lets define happiness or at least we'll give it a shot..,happiness is when one smiles for no reason happiness is when one is finding people whom he can help..,happiness is when your dreams are also beautiful although one has no control over the dreams but still they seem to be in favor of the motion ..,happiness is when you wake with a smile get ready on time wish the unknowns good morning.., when the reason behind that happiness,  that scene which is responsible for happiness is all one can see in front of his eyes..,that exact scene which you are thinking about right now and that exact smile is what i am talking about..,

see its that simple to remember happiness no one did anything at all..,it was you, be proud of yourself you made yourself happy..,

it has always been like this GOD will provide you with the raw material its on you how you shape it..,

people will see only those things which you will show them..,

why are people afraid of depression..,its nothing to be afraid it will come its a part of life and sooner or later you will have to face it.., and it comes to everyone sometimes you have to fall at the moment so you can walk through the next time..,

but what one forgets is there is also a bag of happiness..,so flaunt it.,its not that you are someone special and god is giving you all the depression, lets be clear on that field you are no special so drop that ball from your bag..,

all you get from life is the same..,the difference is the way you see it..,some people adjust with the problem some believe in throwing out the  problem and some people convert that problem into a solution..,

no one cares about how you remove the problem..,all people care about is how you flaunt your happiness..,because somewhere down the lane some one is happy because you are happy so be the miracle of someones life..,

a miracle is something which seems impossible but happens anyway.., 

there is a famous quotation i heard somewhere..,

MAN IMPOSES, GOD DISPOSES...

so what you though was right for you and did not happen take the guess something better is waiting for you right across the corner..,

people say you cry for those only who deserve it..,

well get that right the deserving ones will never make you cry..,

stop concentrating on those who left you..,care more who are still with you..,

so perform a simple exercise everyday and u'll be just fine..,

so SMILE..,

rather than looking outside look within you..mark my words you'll be shocked to see the amount of happiness that you carry in you..,:)

tHE hARD parT..,

there comes a certain point in everyone's life where they have to make certain decisions where they have to do certain things which are not always in the favor of the condition..,

there are times when your mind and heart clash..,they are in contradiction to each other..,

life is not always easy on you but that doesn't mean it is bad to you..,

Simply CompliCAted..

Peace is a complicated matter.., the thing that I learned so far.., it seems to be a pretty interesting matter..,

because the thing is that we have been able to step on the moon..,

I mean technically speaking we made a transport which could reach so far, cross the earth's orbit and reach on the moon land there and float in the air.., so we have done that but PEACE still has not been traced by us..,

 DO YOU KNOW THE REASON.. ??

happiness at it's best..

Have u ever felt the statement "you are alive "...just perform an exercise for just one minute close your eyes and breathe heavily
and then think about this statement that "you are ALIVE"..trust me it feels amazing..
the feeling..in true words you will know the actual value of this breadth it seems a gift which is being given to you every second no matter

is it complicated..??

there are times in life when one tries to explain something but fails to do so..,its too complicated..,too confusing..,

because to everyone there is a different version to peace..,they try really hard to explain it to someone but again all that happens is both of them fail to do there part of the job and both just leave..,

that's because everyone has a different idea of peace, a different image of peace..,

lets take an example a person living in a city all he hears all day is the noise of tires screeching and honking of horns, all he has seen is

make an effort..to feel peace,,

is personal peace an idea or a concept or can it really happen..,

i am just going to ask the question i'm not gonna give the answer..,

do you know why..,

there is no face of peace it does not have a human fist size exotic pump pumping blood to the body..,

peace is a feeling..,it is the feeling of being content..,it is the feeling of being happy with what you have..,

it is the idea of people being in a state where they actually feel real joy..,

there is a difference in forced smile and a natural smile..,

there is a difference between the expression of peace and the expression of anger..,the expression of conflict..,

Do you know yourself..??

when we begin to look for our truest nature we will find that in our nature there is peace..,that in our nature there is understanding..,that in our nature there is the truest LOVE..,

how do we fall in love with anyone because we only saw the good in that person.

there are times when one might feel lost in his own home..,there are times when one might feel alone in a crowded place..,

if there is love in you there is hate in you..,

there is joy in you there is pain in you..,

don't be in a misunderstanding that joy is in someone else..,

no no no no..,

A Peace ,Yet Undefined..

one thing that it always comes out to us is WHO WE ARE..,

we are alive on this planet.., what does it really mean..??

so many ideas have been given.., so many books have been written so many philosophies exist..,

but WHAT DO WE KNOW not what we have heard what we know....

what do we know ...

its a really difficult suggestion we don't even know what we want..

we always try to find joy., perhaps looking for reality..,stability in a world that is so changing ..,change change change..,

looking for a smile..,perhaps looking for a breadth that just came and changed your life forever..,

the miracle of existence

 

A lot of theories already exists a lot are being made, lot of books have been written on this thing that is what our future will be how will things turn out for us.. most the time we are thinking what will be our status or where will we stand after an year..

in short we waste a lot of time thinking what will happen to us after an year or whom we are gonna end up with..;)

but we forget what we have at present we forget the beauty of this moment this second which just passed away its never gonna come back so why not make something out of it..

because this is the only life you have..,

and once this is gone you are not welcomed again its true..

an incident I once heard

so who are u playing today..??..!!

so who are you pretending to be today.., your best friend your competition your neighbour or may be someone you watched in a movie....

because most of the times we try to be what we think others might like or may be to become famous..to be the stud of the group or maybe hottie of the institute..

SMILE...:)

Have you ever felt peace...do you know what it is like to be in peace...i know u must remember one or two or may be even more moments when u might be sitting beside a sea or a lake and it was nice and quiet surrounding and you had a smile on your face for no reason....

it is good that u felt it.. i a'int complaining about it..but ill tell u a short story...

there once was a king who offered a prize to the artist who would paint the best painting of peace. Many artists tried, the king looked at all the paintings..,but there two were he really liked.,and he had to choose between the two...

WHAT LIES WITHIN YOU..

WHAT IS PEACE..what is the formula of PEACE.., what is the face of PEACE.....

Peace is what u FEEL...peace is what u hear when your heart speaks... 

this outside world is very neutral...everyone has been made to see two faces of everything ..good bad...good bad...good bad.., right wrong...right wrong...love hate..love hate...love hate..

  

THe dream of HEAVEN..

They dream of heaven when they are already in heaven. You know the PROBLEM with heaven is.., that you have to DIE. The beauty of this heaven is you don't have to die..,all you have to do is open your eyes..,stop dreaming start looking and you will see what HEAVEN this is.

PEACE of MiNd..,

Once Buddha was walking from one town to another town with a few of his followers. This was in the initial days. While they were travelling, they happened to pass a lake. They stopped there and Buddha told one of his disciples, “I am thirsty. Do get me some water from that lake there.”

The disciple walked up to the lake. When he reached it, he noticed that some people were washing clothes in the water and, right at that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake. As a result, the water became very muddy, very turbid. The disciple thought, “How can I give this muddy water to Buddha to drink!” So he came back and told Buddha, “The water in there is very muddy. I don’t think it is fit to drink.”

FAIRY TALE..,is it.??

a life with no problems only solutions..,all sweet sweet type of a life..all about laughter and joy.

Isn't that suppose to be a FAIRY TALE..

well ask me i'd prefer life over a fairy tale

life may not always provide with u laughter it may hurt u a million times it may be rude to you.., it may disappoint u but..if there is no sadness then how will u recognize happiness..if there is no failure then how will u describe success..

A glass of MILK,paid in FULL

One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry. He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door.

Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk.

He drank it slowly, and then asked, “How much do I owe you?”

Because They <3 U..,

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you've never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your

It Matters To That One

There was a man taking a morning walk on the beach. He saw that along with the morning tide came hundreds of starfish and when the tide receded, they were left behind and with the morning sun rays, they would die. The tide was fresh and the starfish were alive. The man took a few steps, picked one and threw it into the water. He did that repeatedly. Right behind him there was another person who couldn't understand

I Think - About 'Karma'
The Indian term 'karma' refers to the theory of 'cause and effect'. It is a theory that answers any question on the sudden surprises that life throws up every now and then. Or...is there another explanation?...

All of us think back in time and try to find clues to certain unexplainable developments in our life. While some of us have a scientific approach to all we do or believe in, many leave it up to the gods. And then, there is always poor 'destiny' to blame it upon! However, after understanding the concept of karma and the western translation of 'what goes around comes around', the similarity in scientific explanations and this law is so uncanny.

Read this small story; Hope that makes a BIG change in YOU

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The Professor began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. He held it up for all to see & asked the students “How much do you think this glass weighs?”

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’50gms!’….. ’100gms!’ …..’125 gms’ …the students answered.

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“I really don’t know unless I weigh it,” said the professor, “but, my question is:

What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?”…. .

‘Nothing’ …..the students said.

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    Recent achievements and recognition

In November 2011, he was invited as keynote speaker and inspirer of the “Pledge to Peace” launched at the European Parliament, under the patronage of the First Vice-President Gianni Pittella. The Pledge to Peace, a call to peaceful action, was the first of its kind ever presented at the European Union, to which 37 institutions signed. The pledge activities, announced on UN Peace Day each year, continue to develop momentum.

  PREM RAWAT: SIMPLE & PROFOUND ...

What I talk about is something that is simple and yet profound.

Some might find it too simple, but that doesn't mean it is not important.

I talk about the simplicity of breath and the coming and going of each day in your life.

 

I remind people that each day that comes is one of the most valuable gifts they will ever receive.

Incomparable.

For a lot of people that makes sense, and yet it doesn't make sense. We know each day is important, but that's not the way we accept it. The importance of a day is based upon what we have accomplished.

Our life has been placed on a scale, and the weights that measure it have been given to us by this world.

Everything is judged by failure or success.

Yet we have been given a precious gift. We have anniversaries and birthdays, and we give each other presents. But would you give a gorilla something precious like a diamond ring? Why not? A gorilla has fingers just like you, but a gorilla would never understand its value.

The Candle Is Lit

“I have to acknowledge what I need in my life. 

If I want peace, I have to acknowledge it. I have to say to myself, in the simplest of words, ‘Yes, I feel the thirst for peace.’ 

I can use fancy words to impress other people, but I cannot use fancy words to impress myself. If I want to impress me, I have to speak the truth. 

Maybe to the world, truth is a scary word, but truth is what the heart wants to hear. That thirst needs to be quenched. Peace is what the heart needs to feel.”
                                                                                                           -Prem Rawat

Prem Rawat speaks about inner peace. Since his early childhood, he has been informing human beings about the possibility of fulfillment in this lifetime. His message is not tied to race, religion or culture. He simply reminds people of their own innate thirst, and their own inner oasis that can quench that thirst. Besides mere words and concepts, Prem Rawat offers people the tools that can transform this possibility into a reality.

         Prem Rawat - The Candle Is Lit

In your darkest hour there is a candle, and the candle is lit. If you want proof, take a breath. There is your proof. The candle is lit, and even in your darkest hour, you do not need to experience the darkness.

Even in those moments where there is pain and suffering, there is a place inside of you that dances and expresses joy. In the middle of sadness, there is joy. How appropriate.

For a lot of people, the formula for bringing light into their lives is to remove the darkness. It doesn't work like that. You cannot take a bucketful of darkness and throw it out the window. Try the other way—just bring in the light, and the darkness will automatically leave.